Starting the conversation about depression.
Warning signs of depression.
Everyone experiences feelings of sadness now and then, especially at a young age. However, if the feelings last for more than two weeks, then they could be signs of depression.
Ask yourself the following questions, and check the ones you say “yes” to. If you check even a few of them, then it’s a good idea to talk to someone.
How to find the right person to talk to.
No matter how alone or isolated you feel, there is always someone that is ready and willing to help. If you don’t feel ready to talk to a mental health professional, that’s perfectly fine. Start by telling one trusted person you feel comfortable with and you know will be a good listener.
The right person doesn’t have to have personal experience with depression—he or she just needs to take your thoughts, feelings, and concerns seriously, and help you take the next step.
Your trusted person may be a:
How to start the conversation.
FIND A COMFORTABLE PLACE AND TIME. This could be a coffee shop, school, home, or anywhere that you can have some privacy away from distractions.
PLAN WHAT YOU WANT TO SAY. Write down how you’re feeling or practice the conversation in front of a mirror.
BE READY FOR QUESTIONS. The person you’re talking to will probably want more information on your situation. Be honest and share as much as you feel comfortable.
DON’T RUSH THE CONVERSATION. This topic may be challenging for the person you’re talking to, so give them time to listen and process what you’re saying.
DON’T TRY TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM ALL AT ONCE. Remember, this is just the start of the process.
BE PROUD. It takes courage to tell someone how you feel.
What you can say:
I don’t feel right and don’t know what to do.
This is hard for me to talk about, but I think I may have depression.
I’m worried about how I feel about myself.
I’ve been feeling depressed for a while now. I think I may need help.
What to do after the conversation.
|Stay in touch with your trusted person and keep him or her updated on how you feel.|
|If the first conversation didn’t go the way you had hoped, don’t worry or give up. Try finding another trusted person that may be better suited to help.|
|Make healthy lifestyle choices such as diet, exercise, and sleep.|
|If you’re ready to take the next step to receive a diagnosis and treatment, talk to a mental health professional or organization.|